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Saturday, July 13, 2013

The Fosters: Can we all agree that discussing religion at dinner parties almost never ends well? (My thoughts on episode 1x06 “Saturday”)

The Fosters has quickly become one of my favorite new TV shows since it first premiered a little over a month ago. Honestly, I didn’t realize that the show was going to be about a lesbian couple and their family consisting of biological children and adopted children until about a week before the series premiere aired when I looked at the show’s Wikipedia page. Before that, based on the promos for some reason I thought it was going to be about kids that were in the foster care system who were all living in various foster families and were friends with each other because they grew up in the foster care system together.

This show has definitely turned out to be much better than I had originally been expecting it would be. I’d also like to mention that I was pleasantly surprised to discover that Peter Paige is one of the co-creators of the show. I had always known him primarily for his acting on the TV shows Queer as Folk, Grey’s Anatomy and Will & Grace, which is the first thing I had ever seen him in. One of the reasons why I was kind of skeptical about whether or not the show would be very good was due to the fact that Peter Paige is one of the show’s co-creators, and I saw the movie Say Uncle a few years ago, which was his writing and directing debut, and it’s a rather average movie. Don’t get me wrong, I like Say Uncle and I would definitely recommend checking it out, but I still think it’s a rather average movie, so I just kind of assumed that this show was going to be merely average as well. I’m very happy that I was proven wrong, because the writing for this show is truly fantastic. Although, I have to admit that while I loved this episode, I definitely liked the previous episode “The Morning After” a little bit more.

My favorite storyline in this episode was definitely Stef and Lena hosting a dinner party so they can meet Lexie’s parents now that Jesus is dating Lexie. This whole thing started when they found out that Jesus was interested in going to church camp with Lexie, which instantly made Stef feel uncomfortable, because she was afraid that going to the church camp would turn Jesus against them since they are a gay couple. I have to say that I was rather amused about how high-strung Jesus was being at the beginning of the episode about the whole dinner and what Lena and Stef were planning to make Lexie’s parents for dinner and what kind of wine they would be serving with dinner. He’s a freaking teenager! I’ve never met a teenager who got hung up on what kind of wine their parents served to the parents of someone they are friends with or are dating. That was just weird, but it was also kind of amusing at the same time.



Until this episode, I found myself being drawn more towards Lena as a character than I had been to Stef. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve always liked Stef, but Lena is definitely my favorite of the pairing. This episode really made me view Stef differently, because being bisexual myself I can really relate to what Stef said about how she feels about religion in this episode. The reason she’s so uncomfortable when it comes to religion stems from the fact that her dad had apparently had a minister come talk to her when she was younger and told her that being gay is a sin and an abomination after he saw her being affectionate with a girl. That experience had apparently caused her to really struggle with her sexual orientation and is apparently part of what prompted her to marry Mike.

Honestly, I don’t blame Stef for feeling uncomfortable when it comes to church and religion and their views on homosexuality and gay marriage. I’ve felt very uncomfortable at times too when it comes to religion and church since I was raised in a Christian household and was brought up in the Lutheran church. One of the first things that my parents did when they found out that I’m attracted to men was have me go talk to the pastor that’s in charge of counseling and care ministries at my church, and they also pressured me into seeing a therapist too. I don’t want to get all preachy and talk too much about religion in this post, but I really have to give the writers kudos for how they handled the whole storyline with Stef and Lena having dinner with Lexie’s parents and the role that religion and the church’s views on homosexuality played in the episode.

Lexie’s parents were surprisingly nice and accepting about Lena and Stef being a gay couple, and they were pretty much all in agreement about how they should handle things when Jesus and Lexie spend time together at either families’ house. It wasn’t until Stef’s father crashed their dinner party that things started to get a little awkward once Stef’s father started grilling Lexie’s parents about their religious beliefs and their attitude towards homosexuality and gay marriage. He was surprised when they said that what mainly mattered to them was that Lena and Stef, as well as their kids were all a family and that in their minds nothing is more Christian than family. What ultimately ruined the dinner party was the fact that Mariana came home, drunk, and spilled the beans about Jesus and Lexie having unprotected sex in the previous episode and that Stef had gotten the morning after pill for Lexie. Yikes!

Despite Mariana ruining the dinner, I definitely liked the scene where Stef talked to her dad towards the end of the episode. Stef’s dad apologized to her for driving her away from God and his role in making her feel uncomfortable about religion and church. He also said that in his eyes driving a wedge between her and God was the worst sin of all.

Out of all the characters on the show, Mariana is definitely my least favorite. She constantly acts like a mean-spirited bitch in my opinion, and this episode did absolutely nothing to endure me to her. Mariana wanted to avoid Lexie and her parents while they where having dinner at Lena and Stef’s house, so she convinced Callie to go to a party that Wyatt was having where he and a bunch of kids from their school were trashing his parents’ house since it had been foreclosed on. Since Callie is on probation, she didn’t want to go because she was worried what would happen if she got caught up in a bad situation involving the cops.

Callie spent most of the time that she was at the party trying to keep an eye on Mariana who was hanging out with Kelsy, who is now out of rehab for an addiction to pills, and as I mentioned earlier, she along with Kelsy got drunk. When Callie wasn’t trying to chaperone Mariana, she was trying to spend time with Wyatt who was acting wild, but he finally broke down towards the end of the episode, lamenting the fact that he and his family were being forced to move out of the house he had grown up in. However, he removed a mural that he had painted on one of the walls in his bedroom when he was younger, and that seemed to cheer him up a little bit.

Honestly, the whole storyline with Callie and Mariana going to Wyatt’s party was fairly boring in my opinion, at least until she saw the infamous Liam at the party, which freaked her out. That was probably the most interesting party of that storyline, and I can’t wait to see what happens next with the whole Callie/Liam situation.

Callie also had another side storyline in this episode that involved her going to a mandatory therapy group for foster children, which was bit more interesting than the whole storyline with Wyatt’s party. Callie met a girl named Sarah at the therapy group meeting and they seemed to hit it off and went somewhere else where they talked some more about growing up in the foster care system. However, things turned sour between them after Callie instinctively referred to Sarah’s foster brother as Liam based simply on Sarah’s description of him. This freaked Sarah out and prompted her to leave.

While I really liked the scenes between Callie and Sarah and the role they played in Callie and Liam ultimately running into each other at the party towards the end of the episode, one thing that struck me as being a little weird is the fact that they showed Sarah talking in group about how wonderful her current foster family is and how they refer to her as their daughter as opposed to them calling her their foster daughter, and yet when she was talking to Callie after group therapy she referred to the mom as her foster mom. Given how much Sarah gushed about them in the group therapy session, I thought she would want to simply refer to them as her mom and dad. Maybe that wouldn’t have bothered me if the writers had included a line where she said that regardless of the fact that they refer to her as their daughter, she still refers to them as her foster mom and her foster dad. I’m guessing that was just an example of the writers failing to be consistent when it comes to Sarah’s lines in this episode.

Brandon had an important piano performance that he was getting ready for in this episode, because it could lead to him getting a scholarship for college. Mike said that he would give Brandon a ride to the performance, but he ended up being late picking him up, which led to Brandon botching his audition. After Brandon’s audition, Mike came to pick him up and give him a ride home, but it was obvious to Brandon that he had been drinking. Brandon told him about his audition, which prompted Mike to convince the guy holding the auditions to give Brandon another chance to audition. Brandon ended up not getting offered a scholarship, but the guy holding the auditions said that he would take him on as a student. The lessons would be very expensive, but Mike insisted that he pay for the lessons even if it meant that he had to get another job in order to pay for them.

Given the fact that Stef already said something to Mike in a previous episode where she alluded to the fact that Mike has a history of drinking too much, I can’t help but think that Mike is going to end up getting drunk and getting killed in a car accident at some point in the future. It doesn’t sound like she considers him to be an alcoholic though, but based on his behavior in the past several episodes, I’m thinking that Mike is indeed an alcoholic regardless of what Stef or anyone else says.

All things considered, while I liked the previous episode more, I still think that this was a good episode. I thought that the writers did an excellent job of handling the subject of religion and the church’s views on homosexuality, showing both sides of the world’s views on homosexuality without being too bias or preachy towards one particular side despite the show’s overall premise trying to portray the LGBT community in a positive light. That was definitely my favorite aspect of this episode.

I would definitely give the award for most annoying character in this particular episode to Mariana. Although, I would probably give her that award for almost every episode of The Fosters that has aired at this point in time with the exception of the episodes featuring Mariana’s biological mother, in which case I would give the award for most annoying character to Mariana’s mother. I just can’t help but think she only wants to use Mariana in order to get money. I definitely missed Jude as I was watching the episode since Hayden Byerly didn’t appear in this episode. I’m guessing the reason he didn’t appear in this episode was because either the writers simply didn’t have enough screen time to work with in order to give him anything to do, or perhaps it was due to child labor laws. For the record, I don’t know how old Hayden Byerly is in real life, so I have no clue whether or not the producers have to deal with child labor laws when it comes to Hayden working on the show.

That being said, my final score for this episode is 7 out of 10.


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